Friday, January 22, 2010

Instant SoulMate or Create-as-U-go?

Do U believe in ghosts? Goblins? Lockness Monster? SoulMates?

Do SoulMates actually exisit? During a conversation with a cute southern boy, 62, from Georgia, who titles his profile Looking for Miss Right rather than Miss Right Now! we chatted about SoulMates…

He wrote:
Long ago in a land far away, I ran into a couple with whom I matriculated from high school. She said - 'Heard you were divorced'. I said - Yeah, still looking for my soulmate. She said - listen dumby, you don't meet a soulmate, you culture them over the years.

I replied:
Is that the same as women who marry a man because she sees his potential and tried to make him into that person?
Can U say CHANGE?

Guys usually marry the woman they want to spend the next of their life with and are surprised when she changed....
[Evolved?]

Women, when getting divorced, complain that he is still the guy she married.
[i.e. she wasn't successful in changing him into her idealized version.]

So, I can't agree with that couple...sorry...

Do U agree? What’s your definition of a SoulMate?

In my Book, the definition of SoulMate fills the entire Chapter 6 (pgs 100-122).

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